Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Love Week

For Valentines this year Matt spoiled me. He's such a sweetheart! On Friday he came home a little early and surprised me with a beautiful bouquet of red/orange roses. I love how he picks out the best flowers and I love how they brighten up a room. They also smell really good! Saturday he spent the day working on a Honey Do list. I didn't have a list written out but he knew exactly what I wanted and needed done. He did everything and he even had time to take Evan and I out to dinner. On Sunday we went to my families house and my Dad made a delicious steak dinner for the entire family, which included a boyfriend and girlfriend of my siblings.


On the 18th Matt and I celebrated our four year anniversary. Has it really been that long? It seems like we just met! I don't think I ever blogged about how we met but I will keep it short.
I moved to Spanish Fork with my family just a month before he came home from his mission and we happened to move next door to him. I wanted to attend the singles ward but I had no clue where and when they met so I went to the family ward the first Sunday. There is when I met his Mom and one of his sisters. They introduced themselves to us and his mom asked how old I was. She had a huge smile come across her face when she heard I was turning 21 in a few weeks. She told me she had a son on a mission and was due to come home in a month. I was curious and went to look at his plaque. I thought he was cute but wasn't anticipating anything. I started dating a guy that I met in the singles ward but it ended the week Matt came home. I didn't end it so I was heart broken about it but its funny that it happened at the same time Matt came home. Matt and I saw each other for the first time helping a neighbor clean up their yard since they were building. Shortly after that there was a singles dance and he made sure I went with his sister. He was very interested in me but since the recent break up I wasn't too interested in him, plus I knew he was looking for a wife. For some reason that really scared me. I ended up hurting him that night by ditching him because I got a call from the ex. Since then he didn't pursue me. A few weeks passed and the singles were at an activity and I over heard a guy talking to Matt about him meeting the parents of a girl he was seeing. I got really jealous at that point. My best friends brother got married that weekend and I went to his reception and took Matt's sister with me. On the way home our conversation was about Matt and she mentioned that he wanted to date me. I wanted my date so I ended up calling him and asked him where it was. We decided on a date and it ended up being bowling at the Y and root beer floats at A&W afterwards. I honestly was very disappointed at what was planned but I had a lot of fun with him and he had fun himself. Later when we were engaged it turned out he didn't want to take me anywhere so he wanted it cheap as possible and he brought a friend to double date with us to keep him company. I'm glad he didn't really need him. Matt was still dating that girl but things were at a stand still so he took myself and his sister up the canyon. On the way up he got a call from her so he basically ditched me. We were even :). It turns out the girl went back to her ex but Matt wasn't heart broken :). From there we saw each other daily and had a relationship that escalated to engagement a month later. He proposed to me on November 1st by carrying me blind folded up the Grotto Trail that ended with a Winger's candle light dinner. The Grotto is where we had our first kiss and decided to get married so it was a very special place to us. I was happy he officially proposed to me there.

February 18, 2006 we were married in the Salt Lake Temple

It was one of the happiest days of our lives!


Since the 18th was during the week and things were crazy, I just made us a delicious dinner before Matt had to go to his meetings. I made him Pot Roast (his favorite).



On the 20th we officially celebrated by going to the Manti Temple. We went through that Temple for the first time coming home from our Honeymoon so it's also a very special Temple to us. We love the feeling when we go. Since a lot of our friends haven't been to that Temple we make sure to extend an invite when we go. Stephanie and Craig came with us this time and they felt the same exact feeling as we always do. They really enjoyed it. After the session we went to the Manti House for dinner like we always do. It's a must when you're down there. The food was amazing as always. I ate everything in front of me and thats not an easy task with a baby squishing your stomach but it was simple that night because I was so hungry and it was so good.




I'm looking forward to the rest of my life and eternity with Matt. He's such a great husband and Father. I'm lucky that he picked me to be his wife.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Hands Full

Please excuse the lack of updates but I guess I'm not too far behind. My hands have been full trying to juggle a few things. I haven't had much time to do things because about a month ago I started to work away from home. It's only temporary until I get accounting under control. It looks like it will be another 2 weeks or so before I get to be back home with Evan. I'm really looking forward to it because I miss him. My mom and mother in law have been so willing to watch him for me and I really appreciate it. I know he's in good hands so I have nothing to worry about. When I am home, I try to stay off the computer to spend time with Evan and Matt but also try to catch up on things around the house. When I'm home alone with Evan (which happens very often with Matt's calling), I work on that cross-stitch I blogged about earlier. I do it more when Evan's asleep. I've gotten a lot done since then so I'm very proud of myself.


The update on Evan is that he's now in a twin bed. We got an amazing deal off of it so we couldn't pass it up even though we don't need it right now. It's just something we wanted before Alex moves into the crib but we also didn't want Evan to think Alex was taking his place. Having him in it now will hopefully avoid that and it will also help me get more ready for Alex. Evan's bed has three drawers underneath it so we didn't have to buy a dresser. His clothes will be moved from the changing table to there so I can start putting away baby clothes. I'm excited that we're basically ready for Alex to come. I just need to bring up all the baby stuff that's in storage and start organizing everything and see what we need.
Evan has entered the phase "my way or nothing!" It has become a real challenge for me since Matt isn't always home to team up with. Changing diapers and clothes is the biggest one. Evan got a rash not too long ago so he was so determined to keep a diaper off himself. I don't blame him so I would have gladly let him run around with out one but I knew he would pee everywhere. Once he actually did that he understood why he needed a diaper so he let me put one on him. I hope a rash doesn't happen any time soon but I'm hoping I can get him potty trained when I'm back home so that will never happen. I'm not sure if he's ready though. Today was one of those days where I was alone and had to get him ready for church. We're at the 9:00 session so this morning I had to wake him up. Not a very good idea because he was cranky but I had no other choice because it was coming up on 8:30. Evan didn't want his bottom "jammie's" off him but I did get them off and luckily changed his diaper with little fighting from Evan. Once I started taking his top off it was no go from there. I got his arms in his white shirt but there was no way he would let me button it up. I was starting to panic a little but I made myself stay calm because I knew if I wasn't calm, Evan would never calm down. I felt I needed to call Matt and see if he could come home and help and thankfully he was able too. Evan was still picking a good fight against us but we ended up getting him somewhat ready and out the door thanks to the snow. We at least got his church pants and shoes on. He was wearing his "jammie's" underneath them because we thought it would help us get his clothes on but we still weren't able to persuade him. His white shirt stayed off but his "jammie's" shirt was covered with a sweater jacket during Sacrament. Amazingly enough, we were on time for church and I just prayed that he will let me change his clothes later. I didn't think I would last through Sacrament without having to take Evan out but he stayed in the entire time thanks to Amy because she sat with us. Cadence and her helped distract him and it turned out Evan and I helped distract Cadence. It looks like we'll be sitting with each other from now on since we're both Sacrament Widow's. Before I took Evan to nursery I had to change his diaper and that allowed me to take off his jacket and put on his white shirt. His "jammie's" were put away in the diaper bag :). I really hope this phase doesn't last long because it's hard on us. Any idea's that can help us? Last but not least with him, he loves "doggies" (101 Dalmatians). He could watch it all day if I would let him. Same thing with Blue's Clues. For some reason he likes to call them Pink Clues.
I'm 28 weeks with Alex. That means we have 12 more weeks left. I can't believe the time is almost here! I'm now doing the two week appointments, I'm measuring a week ahead and I'm gaining a lot of weight! I say that because I gained only 29 lbs with Evan and I've already gained 20 lbs with this one. It makes me scared knowing that I will most likely gain a lot more in the next few weeks because this is the time when the baby really grows. I find it crazy that I'm still wearing my regular jeans at 28 weeks. Will that change? I can't tell but I'm probably carrying him higher then Evan. It makes sense to me because most evenings I have a hard time walking because it's hard to carry the extra weight. I recently purchased a maternity belt to help give extra support and it's been helping.
This is it for now. I have more things to write about with pictures but I will have to do that another time. I want to spend some time with my Hubby!